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Which dog is right for me?

The answer isn't a breed name, it's a lifestyle. A 2022 study of around 18,000 dogs showed that breed explains only about 9% of the variation in behaviour, and that two dogs of the same breed can be completely different. So a breed points to likely needs (exercise, scent work, guarding, protective instinct), never a guaranteed character.

Online “which breed is right for you” quizzes are fun for getting you thinking, never a verdict: they work from breed averages, whereas what matters most is the individual dog in front of you.

Start by taking stock of yourself

This questionnaire is about you, not about the dog. Answer it honestly before you even look at a puppy.

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Steering clear of breed myths

A breed points to likely needs, not a guaranteed character: a 2022 study shows it explains only about 9% of the differences in behaviour. Look above all at the kind of exercise and stimulation you can genuinely offer. Here are some of the most commonly adopted breeds in France in recent years, grouped here by need rather than by popularity.

Herding and working dogs

Australian shepherd, border collie, Belgian shepherd (Malinois), German shepherd, miniature American shepherdThese dogs have the highest need for physical and mental exercise, with a real appetite for “working”. They thrive with a daily outlet: dog sports, thinking games, long outings. Without it, they quickly become unmanageable: barking, destruction, hyperactivity. Four of France's ten favourite breeds are in this group, often chosen for their image when they are the ones asking for the most time. Steer clear of them if your days are short.

Retrieving and hunting dogs

Golden retriever, labrador, English cocker spaniel, Brittany spanielThey are sociable, often excellent with families, but they are not “easy-going” dogs: they have a real need for daily exercise, retrieving and scent work. An under-exercised golden or labrador gets bored and puts on weight; the cocker and the Brittany have a hunter's instinct that needs a proper outlet.

Terriers and dogs with a hunting instinct

Jack Russell, Staffordshire bull terrier (“staffie”), dachshundThese are small or medium dogs, but they are far from lapdogs: tenacity, energy and a strong instinct to dig, chase and hunt underground. Their need for exercise is often underestimated because of their size. The “staffie” is not a categorised dog under French law: don't confuse it with the American Staffordshire, which is.

Companion dogs

Cavalier King Charles, chihuahua, French bulldog, spitz / PomeranianTheir need for exercise is more moderate, and they are more flexible about your timetable, but walks, socialisation and company remain essential: an under-stimulated small dog barks and becomes anxious. Some of these breeds also have health weaknesses worth knowing about before you decide (see below).

These profiles are averages, not promises.

Depending on your situation

You work all day
  • Most owners work during the day and their dogs are perfectly fine: the number of hours alone matters less than what you organise around the absence.
  • The real warning sign is distress: destruction, barking or soiling when he's left alone.
  • Organise the day: a proper walk morning and evening, some exercise, and if possible a break at midday (you, someone close, a dog-sitter, a daycare).
  • Get him used to being alone in stages, never all at once. Ideally, book a few days off when he arrives to ease him into it.
  • The one genuine physiological constraint: a puppy or an elderly dog can't hold on for long and needs to go out more often, quite apart from boredom.
  • For long days, a settled adult is easier to live with than a very demanding puppy.
You have children
  • The first criterion isn't the breed: it's that an adult is always there to supervise.
  • Never a child alone with the dog: teach both of them how to interact well, the child as much as the dog.
  • A well-socialised dog, who doesn't get worked up over nothing, is worth more than a “breed with a gentle reputation” that's been poorly prepared.
You already have a cat or another pet
  • The more resources there are (bowls, beds, attention), the fewer conflicts.
  • If your cat has never met a dog and loathes them, this isn't the moment for a puppy.
  • Don't try to house a cat with a dog who already has a strong prey drive.
You're 70, or have reduced mobility
  • An already socialised, calm adult is often a better bet than an intense puppy, and shelters are full of them.
  • Choose a size and a strength you can handle on the lead, with exercise needs that fit your real mobility.
  • Line up someone you can count on (a relative, an association) in case of a hospital stay: that's protecting the dog, not being morbid.

The false good reasons for choosing a dog

Are you ready, or is it better to wait?

You can go ahead with confidence

  • You've taken stock honestly: your real time each day, your energy, your home, your experience.
  • The health budget is covered (identification, vaccinations, insurance or savings, unexpected bills running to several hundred euros).
  • Someone can take over when you're not there.
  • You're taking on a 10 to 15 year commitment.

Better to adjust, or to wait

  • Your days run to 10 hours with no possible break.
  • The budget is tight, or your housing isn't stable right now.
  • The urge comes from a very recent crush, not yet thought through.
  • Not everyone in the household agrees.
  • Putting it off isn't a failure: it protects a dog who might otherwise end up abandoned.
  1. Morrill et al.Genomics of dog behaviour (Science, ~18,000 dogs): breed explains about 9% of the variation in behaviour, with wide within-breed variation (2022)
  2. Vredegoor et al.Can f 1 allergen in the coat and in the home by breed (Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology): no evidence that any breed exposes you to less allergen (2012)

Going further

Frequently asked questions

Which dog is right for me?

The one whose needs fit your real life: your time each day, your energy, your budget over 10 to 15 years, your home. There is no “best breed” in the abstract, only a dog that fits your life. Start by taking stock of yourself, before you look at a single puppy.

Which dog breed should I choose?

None of them is “the best”. A 2022 study shows that breed explains only about 9% of a dog's behaviour, with huge variation within a single breed. Breed points to likely needs (exercise, scent work, guarding), not the character you'll actually have in front of you.

Which dog should I choose?

Choose a profile of needs you can genuinely meet, not a label or a crush on a look. For a first dog, an adult from a shelter is often simpler than a puppy: you see straight away who he is, rather than having to guess.

How do I choose my dog?

By first taking an honest look at your lifestyle: time available each day, energy, home, health budget, experience, and who takes over when you're away. Only then do you look at which type of dog fits all that. If something doesn't add up, better to adjust or wait than to force it.

Which dog should I choose if I work all day?

Breed counts for less than people think, it's mostly a matter of temperament and organisation. Aim for a calm dog with modest exercise needs: a settled adult rather than a puppy (who can't hold on and needs very frequent trips out), and steer clear of very active breeds built to run or work (shepherds, Malinois, husky and so on), hard to fulfil across a working day. The rest comes down to organisation: walks morning and evening, and if possible a break at midday.

Which dog doesn't shed?

Every dog sheds, and the “hypoallergenic” dog does not exist: a 2012 study found no breed that exposes you to less allergen, which is present in dander and saliva, not only in the coat. Continuously growing coats (poodle, bichon) drop less hair on the floor, but need more grooming. If someone in the household is allergic, see an allergy specialist before you commit.

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